No chance?
This meeting is going totally differently to how I expected. Do we radiate some kind of ‘we want to start fertility treatment NOW’ aura? I don’t want that at all! I want a baby, but not at any cost. I repeat my question: “Is there no chance of a natural pregnancy for us? Because we’re not really keen to start a medical fertility treatment immediately.” The doctor looks at us as if we come from Mars and says, “Most people who come here are in a hurry to start.” Well, we’re not. We’re in a hurry, but not in a hurry to come back here!
He picks up the results of the sperm testing. Finally! We’re hanging on his every word and he says a lot, but all I hear is, “You have a chance of getting pregnant naturally. It’s a smaller chance than most people, but it’s a chance.” Everything he says after that I don’t even hear. We have a chance.
WE HAVE A CHANCE!